Five years ago I met Mr. X while traveling to work, and we became friends.  At first he did not tell me he was married.  A friend told me.  When I questioned him, he admitted it, saying they were separated.  I was also told the wife keeps coming and going in his life.

     After about a year, I had no more calls from Mr. X.  When I investigated, I found the wife was back again.  I decided to move on, and when I was fine, received a call from Mr. X saying she moved out.  He promised not to take her back, so again we got together.

     However, he refused to go out in public.  All he wanted to do was book a room and chat about his situation.  After much complaining by me, we went to a movie.  He would not walk alongside me, and even in the cinema he sat as if being watched.

     He forgets my birthday, and when I am writing exams he does not even inquire on the result.  In May, he stopped calling.  Now he wants to come back to me as his wife is moving out again.  I am tired of this situation, but I do not know what to do.

     Serena