This Week’s Column

Week # 1,128  – November 23, 2020

Sword and Shield

     When I was in high school, I was bullied (although that hardly seems to describe what happened to me). A few of the mean kids would see me in the hall and yell, “Hey, ugly! You're so ugly you should kill yourself!”      This happened daily for over a [...]

New Book October 2020

Whether you find yourself in an age gap relationship or contemplate being in one, this book is for you.

Age Difference Relationships: When Is the Gap Insurmountable? offers three principles as a guide to your age gap relationship and advice on how to tell others.

Wayne & Tamara Mitchell can tell you that being distant in age is not a guarantee of failure, just as being close in age is not a guarantee of success. But some factors matter more than others, and some of what they say may surprise you.

Through case histories, you will experience what we all experience, our awakening to love from crushes to infatuation to genuine love.

Wayne and Tamara

Direct Answers is the weekly relationship advice column by Wayne and Tamara Mitchell.

You ask yourself, “How can I stop infidelity from ruining my life? ”or “How do I cope with this nightmare?”

First, you need to know why the pain response is there and why you feel as you do. Until then, it will be difficult for you to move on. Understanding your pain will change your way of thinking almost immediately.

In Cheating in a Nutshell, Wayne and Tamara Mitchell explain the source of your pain.


Last week’s column

Week # 1,127  – November 16, 2020

A Species of Madness

     I have been married for three years and five months, and I’m afraid I’m going to push my husband away.      In the early part of [...]

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In Memory Of

     Writing you is the last thing I would normally do. I never talk about my problems to anyone. In fact, I'm the person people come to if they need advice. But I'm stuck, so I thought I'd drop my [...]

Send your questions to: DirectAnswers@WayneAndTamara.com