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1111, 2019

Charity Case

Where do I even start? I'm 22, the oldest child, with a brother, 19, and a sister, 9. My parents have been together on and off for years. My father spent time in prison, had affairs, and treated us badly over the years. In the past 10 years, however, he has changed. He hasn't had an affair and he tries to treat my mother [...]

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Direct Answers is the weekly relationship advice column by Wayne and Tamara Mitchell. The column was begun in April 1999 and within two years appeared in newspapers in more than a dozen countries.